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The Spanking Series by Vivian

Written by an internationally-known expert on spanking and domestic discipline

Praise for the Author's popular & critically acclaimed spanking books & blog...

“The depth of insight is breath taking.”

“I learn so much from you…”

“So well written and so down to earth and easy for anyone to understand.”

"I most appreciate…how honest you are able to be about so many aspects of spanking."

“…enjoyable, provocative and uniquely perceptive.”

“You have found words for things that reside deep in my spirit and i have found no way to express.”

“Vivian: I wish I had discovered your site years ago instead of hours ago. It would have saved me years of inner struggle.”

“…marvelous and honest.”

“You manage to present your views on a very sensitive and controversial subject with wisdom and intelligence, and rather than take a militant stand, your approach is refreshingly liberal. This I found reassuring, which is why I feel comfortable sharing my experience with

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“I have found that your writings nurture my own soul.”

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”Thank you so much for posting something so honest and so real. I've felt, and often feel, all of the things you've written about here.”

“Thoughtful and provocative.”

“Your writing constantly challenges me to see the world differently.”

“You write so articulately about issues close to my heart.”

"So insightful. Brilliant!"

"I appreciate your thoughtful approach to the subject."

"Very well-written and provocative."

"You're definitely in danger of raising the intellectual bar on the kinky pages."

"I am so very thankful to be reading thoughts from a very intelligent woman who is not afraid to look deep into herself and question everything."

"Your insight and compassion are far beyond your years."

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How to Get the Spanking You Want

How to Get the Spanking You Want: The Complete Guide to Asking for It, Getting It & Making It Better

Combining practical, compassionate wisdom with startling insights into the hidden secrets of male psychology, this soon-to-be-classic reveals for the first time how to get the spankings you want & deserve from your man.

"Excellent advice... and a very useful read." -- Uncle Agony

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How to Give a Spanking

How to Give a Spanking: Advice from the Receiving End

Designed as a companion guide to How to Get the Spanking You Want, this book is written especially for men whose partners want spankings. It describes in simple, clear "Mars" language what it is she wants from a spanking, and offers practical, easy-to-use techniques for fulfilling her desires.

"A brilliant and superbly-written book!" - reader comment

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What He Wants

BRAND NEW: What He Wants: A Man's Seven Secret Spanking Desires

"Building on the material in the first two books, What He Wants contains a powerful and near-magical secret to maintaining a successful spanking relationship. It's a simple, but profound, secret that can turn your partner from a reluctant participant in your spanking desires into a passionate partner who loves to spank you as much as you love to be spanked."

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The Little Book of Spanking Stories

The Little Book of Spanking Stories

A collection of spanking stories by Vivian, author of the best-selling modern classics "How to Get the Spanking You Want," "How to Give a Spanking: Advice from the Receiving End," and the newest "What He Wants: A Man's Seven Secret Spanking Desires."

Before Vivian became a noted expert in the spanking and DD world, she was an internationally published erotica writer. This collection includes stories previously published in Roy Turner's iconic Domina Magazine as well as other noted publications, along with never-before-published pieces.

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"[These] books are an excellent resource, and I wish I could have read them years ago, when I was just beginning to come to terms with my own needs and desires." - Sisters in Submission

"The best information I've ever seen." - Domestic Discipline Dreams

Written by a popular & internationally-recognized expert on spanking and "domestic discipline"

VIVIAN is the author of multiple bestselling nonfiction spanking books, as well as the popular blog The Disciplined Feminist, which explores the challenges of being a modern woman who also wants (and gets) spankings from her partner.  With over 23 years of first-hand spanking and "domestic discipline" experience and an extensive background in gender roles and psychology, she has been interviewed for articles in both the popular and academic press, including Bitch magazine, Tango and, as well as documentary and mainstream Hollywood film projects in the U.S. and abroad. Her short stories have been published internationally in magazines like Roy Turner's iconic Domina and the Australian magazine Paddles. Vivian is a pseudonym.

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